四大失敗及成功婚姻啟示錄 - 加州大學: 柏克萊 Berkeley 分享
失敗: Contempt (睇唔起人), Criticism (批評),
Stonewalling (唔好提!) Defensiveness (辯護)
成功: Humor (幽默) Gratitude (感恩),
Forgiveness (寬恕) ，Disclosure (披露感覺)
Based on 10 minutes conversation of 75 engaged couples, 92% accuracy.